Moving from one thing to the next — between activities, places, people and years. Why change can be so hard for some children, and the calm, predictable preparation that helps.
Plain English, no jargon. You don't need a teaching background to use this — just read the parts that feel useful and skip the rest. If something raises a question, your child's teacher or SENDCO is the best next step.
Children face transitions all day: waking up, leaving the house, arriving at school, moving between lessons, playtime, home time, bedtime. There are also bigger ones — a new teacher, a new class, a house move, a new sibling, or moving to secondary school.
Each asks a child to stop something, cope with not quite knowing what comes next, and start again. For some children that is easy. For others it is the hardest part of the day.
A child who melts down when it is time to leave is usually not trying to win. They are struggling to manage the change itself.
"Five more minutes, then shoes on." A visual timer can help children who struggle to judge time.
A simple picture sequence for the morning or bedtime routine reduces how much a child has to hold in mind.
Something to carry or do in the gap — holding the keys, choosing the song in the car.
Predictable routines free up energy for the changes that cannot be avoided.
If transitions are causing distress most days, or a big change is coming and your child is very worried, ask to speak to the class teacher or SENDCO. Many schools offer extra visits, transition booklets or a named adult for children who need more preparation.
The principles here — preparation, predictability, trusted adults and information-sharing — are consistent across DfE, NICE and UK practice guidance. Evidence for any single transition programme is limited. Visual timetables and advance warning are well-established supports for some children, particularly autistic children, but they are not a guarantee for any individual child.
Expects schools to plan transitions carefully for pupils with SEND, including sharing information between phases and settings.
Recommends knowing pupils well and using high-quality, adaptive teaching — including explicit structure and scaffolds that make expectations predictable.
Recommends a supportive whole-school climate, trusted relationships and targeted support at times of change.
Includes recommendations on anticipating and planning for change, and using visual supports and predictable routines, for autistic children — principles that help many children.
DfE-supported UK programme with practical transition resources used widely in English schools.
Free UK materials, including support for children through school transitions.
The professional Evidence Library shows the same ideas written for teachers, SENDCOs and school leaders.
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See the same evidence translated for teachers, so home and school can pull in the same direction.
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